Every Woman is Beautiful

A little boy asked his mother 'Why are you crying?'

'Because I'm a woman,' she told him.

'I don't understand,' he said.

His mum just hugged him and said, 'And you never will'

Later the little boy asked his father,
'Why does mother seem to cry for no reason?'

'All women cry for no reason,' was all his dad could say.
The little boy grew up and became a man,

still wondering why women cry..

Finally he put in a call to God;
and when God got on the phone,
he asked, 'God, why do women cry so! easily?'

God said: 'When I made the woman she had to be special.
I made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world;
yet, gentle enough to give comfort'

'I gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth
and the rejection that many times comes from her children'
'I gave her a hardness that allows

her to keep going when everyone else gives up,
and take care of her family through sickness
and fatigue without complaining '
'I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any
and all circumstances, even when her child has hurt her very badly'

'I gave her strength to carry her husband through his faults
and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart'

'I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife,
but sometimes tests her strengths
and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly'

'And finally, I gave her a tear to shed.
This is hers exclusively to use whenever it is needed.'

'You see: The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears,
the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair.'!

'The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes,
because that is the doorway to her heart
* the place where love resides.'

Be proud to be yourself

Previously, I was always very dissatisfied with my body, my appearance. Food was the only thing that can comfort my mind, my soul. So the more I dislike them, the more I eat. I started to avoid every single activities, outing, event and etc. I was the anti-social freak. The past few days, I have seen a lot, and think a lot. Finally a voice inside my heart was saying : "Shaowen, wake up! This is your life and you gotta live it, you are the only director in your life, you are the one who gonna paint your life with colors." I was like awake from a really long dream.

I am fat, so what? I have the almost same figure as Beyonce, women in USA think this is SEXY. I can still bring out the self-confidence with my big-sized body. I am proud of my body, my figure. Well, this doesn't mean I am gonna stop my slimming programme, I will still keep on my slimming programme because I want to be perfect. I have been told by my CA : No one is perfect, but we can pursue perfection. Yes I want to pursue perfection.

I am the only me in this world, if I don't love myself, who does? I am the unique one, because you would never have the smile I had :)

To A Special You

Before I met you, everyone was telling me how handsome you are, and when I first saw you, I was like " this call handsome?", LOL. I still don't think you are handsome. But, you look smart, I like you in your suit and coat. I like your smile, it brighten up my day. I like your shyness, because you look so cute. When you are playing sport games, you are just so hot. When you are working, the earnest look attracted me.

You are the special one for me, I don't love you, but I like you, I like the way you being yourself. I won't get jealous when other girls talked to you, I won't get jealous when you say other girls are pretty..but I feel upset if you are not paying attention on me.

I don't want to be your gf, but I wish to be your close friend. I wish to know everything about you, at least you would think of me when you are sad. I want to share everything with you in my life. I want to be the one who support you every moment, I am the one who will not mad to you, and always show you my smiling face. I could be your clown when you need some laughter. I will always be there for you.

You are the motivation for me. I miss you..

It's all about L.O.V.E

The journey starts from L.O.V.E

the G.A.N.G.Z

F.R.I.E.N.D.S

partnership. P.A.S.S.I.O.N.A.T.E

L.E.A.D.E.R.S.H.I.P

Boyz L.I.K.E girls

love M.E.M.O.R.I.E.S

I jump like no one is around. F.R.E.E.D.O.M

With Doc. Sam. A.D.M.I.R.A.T.I.O.N

Four of us. LOVE you all to the max

I love myself

Assignment. L.I.F.E.S.T.Y.L.E

Dinner with Ken Chong. F.R.I.E.N.D.S.H.I.P

Lunch with my Family. E.V.E.R.L.A.S.T.I.N.G.L.O.V.E

L.O.V.E_S.E.X.Y_F.R.E.E.D.O.M_P.A.S.S.I.O.N.A.T.E

Happy Chinese New Year to all my friends

First of all, I want to say Happy Valentine's day to all of you !

for those who single like me would probably forget about this because it was exactly the same day with the first day of our chinese new year.

I treat 14th of Feb like nothing, so let's talk about CNY !

It's chinese new year again,

and this is the only festival that I can do whatever I wanted to

I can eat like crazy people, excuse: it's cny ma

I can shop like mad people, excuse: cny weih, I need new shirt

I can ask for more money, excuse: uncle auntie, gong hei fatt choi ( then ang pow given)

I can ask for more holidays, excuse: I go back hometown

I can ask for wine, poker, mahjong, excuse: these are part of cny

and it's da chance for me to meet his parent, excuse: I want to go your house bai nian

:)

My lovely sister and I

This made me think, how bout you

Read each one

carefully and think

about it a second or

two

1. I love you not

because of who you

are, but because of

who I am when I am

with you..

2. No man or woman

is worth your tears,

and the one who is,

won't make you cry.

3. Just because

someone doesn't love

you the way you want

them to, doesn't mean

they don't love you

with all they have.

4. A true friend is

someone who reaches

for your hand and

touches your heart.

5. The worst way to

miss someone is to be

sitting right beside

them knowing you

can't have them.

6. Never frown, even

when you are sad,

because you never

know who is falling in

love with your smile..

7. To the world you

may be one person,

but to one person you

may be the world.

8. Don't waste your

time on a man/woman,

who isn't willing to

waste their time on

you.

9. May be God wants

us to meet a few

wrong people before

meeting the right one,

so that when we

finally meet the

person, we will know

how to be grateful.

10. Don't cry because

it is over, smile

because it happened.

11. There's always

going to be people

that hurt you so what

you have to do is keep

on trusting and just be

more careful about

who you trust next

time around.

12. Make yourself a

better person and

know who you are

before you try and

know someone else

and expect them to

know you.

13. Don't try so hard,

the best things come

when you least expect

them to.

REMEMBER:

WHATEVER

HAPPENS, HAPPENS

FOR A REASON.

I found something interesting in my college

College is a place that we make new friends,

learn how to social，

how to communicate with people,

before we step into this society

well I admit I'm not so good in communicating with people

I'm sucks in this

I lost contact with my high school friends

I lost contact with my primary school friends

how sad right ??

The first day I step into this college

I told myself not to do that again,

I have to learn how to communicate with people

but somehow

there are still some people I don't feel like get close with them

i kept thinking was that my problem

and have been emo for about 1 sem time..

until the day i found something interesting in my college

she is very disgusting, but i heart her

we always scold each other, but i still heart her

she is very very rude, and i still heart her lots ( hahahahaha)

this is the power of love

we found out we have same thoughts

we have the same hobbies

we have same type of figure ( well hers is actually better than mine)

and we decided to start a plan

diet !

it has been one month++ we didn't have meal together

how suffer !!! :(

we chewed Lecithin-E in class

we drink fruit juice

we detoxed..

Oh ya, she is my soul mate in sing k

we sing like no one is around us

we shout, we scream, we dance, we jump

and we shopped

1u , the curve, cineleisure, bangsar, sungai wang

Belle, I heart you much

my love to u is a continues tense

The Jan

Time flies..
it's a brand new year and I have my new year resolutions:

• achieve certain level in my career
• do well in my diploma with flying colors
• upgrade myself ( the inner beauty)
• be slimmer !!

"If you failed in planning, you are plan to fail"
my dad always told me about this

I actually understand but I didn't apply in my life

and seems quite a mess in my life without doing planning for the previous year
so in this brand new 2010, I ma gonna start doing planning

Plan for my career
I'm very confident towards myself that I'm gonna get 21% within this year

and actually i plan to qualify DD within my diploma
I'm gonna achieve it, I'm gonna do it!

Plan for my studies
yep, no any failing in diploma will do
but still wish there is a 3 or above in my CGPA

Plan for the inner beauty

read more, see more, speak more, learn more

Plan for slimming

I'm very excited when it comes to the slimming part !

I know this is gonna be a new challenge for me and i'm gonna overcome it

I have the faith on me myself

55kgs is now my target !

go for it

and I enjoy slimming !

Say Hi to The Pursuit of Happiness

Say hi to my new blog !

I wanted to start a blog since long time ago, but I'm lazy..

and I don't know a blog can meant so much to a blogger
but finally I've been inspired by my soh po- BELLE

I started to fall for blog and read through all my friends' blogs..

Now, this is the place I share my life with you

this is the place you can see my improvement
Here，there will be no secret